A HEARTBROKEN woman has revealed why she’s now reluctant to forgive her cheating boyfriend despite initially agreeing to go to couple’s counseling sessions.
She explained that they’ve had their fair share of disagreements but have mostly gotten along well during their 18 months of dating.
She penned a lengthy post on Reddit revealing that her boyfriend confessed to having cheated on her with his masseuse.
Having had the most fun ever in a relationship with him and having nursed him back to health after surgery, the woman was devasted by his infidelity.
She wrote: “This morning I woke to a text from him at 5 am asking me to call him as soon as possible. I did, very worried about what was going on with him.
“He confessed that the pelvic infection I've been dealing with for more than two weeks – which he has known about from the start – is trich [Trichomoniasis] because he screwed his masseuse and tested positive himself.
“Said he'd been up since 2 am which is when he saw his own lab results.
“On the phone, he got all weepy. He says it's because he's sorry for hurting me.
“I'm pretty sure it was really him feeling sorry for himself because he got busted for cheating.
“I am confident he wouldn't have told me about it if it hadn't been for the STD.”
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The woman vented her frustration and said she told her boyfriend at the start of their relationship that she wouldn’t put up with cheating.
She said he has been sending text messages begging her for forgiveness and claiming no one has treated him as well as her.
She continued: “He asked me to do couples counseling with him, which I reluctantly agreed to at first, but subsequently changed my mind about.
“Says he has his own counseling appt on Monday.
“I still stand by my one-and-done for infidelity, and he knows this.
“My self-protection mode won't put me in the way of being hurt this profoundly again, and I'm confident that he'd cheat again in the future.
“Not looking for advice, just moral support. I'm going to miss him immensely, but I don't see a way forward that doesn't involve ending the relationship.”
Responses to the Reddit post advised the woman to get tested for other sexually transmitted infections that her boyfriend may have passed on to her.
Commenters agreed she was right not to go ahead with the couple’s counseling.
They reassured her that she should end the relationship and told her to cut all contact with her boyfriend.
One person wrote: “He didn't just trip and fall into her vagina – he deliberately chose to betray you and then slapped you with an STD as a s****y parting gift.
“He's not crying because he hurt you, he's crying because his dumba** got caught.
“Stick to your guns, ditch the b*****d, and never settle for anyone who thinks so little of you that they'd risk your health for a quick f**k.
“You're better than this, and you f***ing know it.”
Another commented: “Don’t get sucked into couple’s counseling. There’s nothing to discuss. You’ve done nothing wrong.
“Giving him another chance would tell him that your boundaries can be changed once he has broken them. It sucks but walking away is the right call.”
A third chimed in: “Good on you for putting your values first. It doesn't matter how good you guys had it before.
“He isn't compatible with your morals. You deserve better. You deserve a relationship that isn't built on lies. You deserve inner peace.”
A fourth added: “Cut all contact now. He will manipulate and whine his way out of this if you give him the chance.
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“Something similar happened to me a year ago, I regret discussing it with him as there was no point. He knew what he was doing and HE DID NOT CARE.
“I need you to remember this HE DID NOT CARE about your health, your womb, your ability to have children in the future?!! God knows what else he could’ve picked up from a ‘Masseuse.’”
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