{"id":242403,"date":"2023-11-28T13:56:26","date_gmt":"2023-11-28T13:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lovemainstream.com\/?p=242403"},"modified":"2023-11-28T13:56:26","modified_gmt":"2023-11-28T13:56:26","slug":"i-found-out-my-husband-has-been-living-a-double-life-with-my-best-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovemainstream.com\/lifestyle\/i-found-out-my-husband-has-been-living-a-double-life-with-my-best-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"I found out my husband has been living a double life with my best friend"},"content":{"rendered":"

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A heartbroken woman recently shared that she \u201ccan\u2019t sleep at night\u201d after making the devastating discovery that her husband is having an affair with their married best friend.<\/p>\n

The 42-year-old husband had been engaged in a secret relationship with their 32-year-old godmother to their four children.<\/p>\n

The revelation unfolded dramatically when the betrayed wife stumbled upon the pair kissing at the end of their driveway, lit up by the light in the friend’s car.<\/p>\n

The betrayed wife took to Reddit to share the story. She wrote: “In shock I didn’t know whether to throw her pyrex at the car or just walk away. I decided the latter, and was too shocked to cry or be angry. When my husband got back, I had to pretend like everything was normal.\u201d<\/p>\n

That night, the wife resorted to going through her husband’s phone, where she uncovered a trail of messages dating back two to three years. The friend had cunningly disguised her identity under a fake name.<\/p>\n

The betrayed wife expressed her grief on Reddit: “I’m sick with rage and betrayal. I’m lost and have no idea what steps to take next.”<\/p>\n

Catching the two of them red-handed made her think back to other occasions when her husband was acting suspiciously.<\/p>\n

She wrote: \u201cThinking back on it, the two of them disappeared at her wedding. When I asked him where he was, he said he needed to reassure her that she had done the right thing. I feel so so sick thinking of these things.\u201d<\/p>\n

The friend’s husband, currently posted overseas as a diplomat, remains oblivious to the affair, complicating the situation even further.<\/p>\n

The Reddit post garnered massive amounts of support, prompting the wife to share additional details and express gratitude. She wrote: “Woah didn’t expect this much support. It’s really overwhelming.\u201d<\/p>\n

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In an update, she shared how she still hasn\u2019t mentioned anything to her husband or her best friend, but she\u2019s struggling to see a way around it.<\/p>\n

She wrote: “A part of me just wants to confront my husband, see what lame excuse he has. But I need to get away from him. This level of betrayal physically hurts.”<\/p>\n

The comments under the post, of which there are nearly 5,000, are flooded with messages of support for the wife.<\/p>\n

One person gave her some advice: \u201cBe cold and calculated. Consult with several lawyers on divorce and prepare a strategic exit plan. Tell the cheating bf\u2019s husband your stealth divorce and suggest he do the same. Document all the evidence. Good luck.\u201d<\/p>\n