{"id":239572,"date":"2023-10-26T18:25:49","date_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:25:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lovemainstream.com\/?p=239572"},"modified":"2023-10-26T18:25:49","modified_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:25:49","slug":"teen-adopted-by-foster-parents-in-the-nick-of-time-before-turning-18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovemainstream.com\/lifestyle\/teen-adopted-by-foster-parents-in-the-nick-of-time-before-turning-18\/","title":{"rendered":"Teen adopted by foster parents in the nick of time before turning 18"},"content":{"rendered":"
A teenager who grew up in foster care has officially found his forever home only hours shy of his eighteenth birthday.<\/p>\n
Roman Balassaitis from Jacksonville, Florida, has experienced his fair share of upheaval in his life, having lived in 19 different places since the age of 11.<\/p>\n
But after staying with the Balassaitis for 14 months, parents Brad and Renee wanted to make him an official part of their family and faced a race against time to give Roman stability before he aged out of the care system and was no longer eligible for support.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The couple officially adopted him on October 17, first via Zoom and then in Clay County Historic Court House – 40 miles away from Jacksonville.<\/p>\n
Brad Balassaitis told First Coast News: ‘He [Roman] doesn’t have to worry about bouncing around anymore, he knows that we are here for him.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Roman\u00a0Balassaitis (pictured) told First Coast News that his heart was beating with excitement before officially becoming a part of the\u00a0Balassaitis family – only hours shy of his eighteenth birthday<\/p>\n
The young man told how his heart was nervously beating in excitement during the process, adding:\u00a0‘It means I have someone to go to. It means if I need someone to talk to, I have people to talk to now.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Mother-of-nine Renee was looking forward to the teenager’s brighter future after making him a part of their family, noting that the young man just needed to feel supported, as well as ‘wanted and chosen’.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Roman has also changed his second name to that of his adoptive family.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The couple first met their adopted son whilst he was living in a group home at the age of 12.<\/p>\n
Roman would often pop-up at their family home, engaging in Nerf gun fights with Brad and Renee’s children.<\/p>\n
He first lived with the Balassaitis for nine months after leaving the group home, but was not ready to be adopted at the time.<\/p>\n
Renee, who has nine children altogether including Roman, described him leaving their home at the age of 13 as ‘crushing’.<\/p>\n
However, their foster child remained in contact with the family, and in August 2022 the Balassaitis’ discovered Roman wanted to live with them again.<\/p>\n
According to USA today, the young man first stayed with the family in an unofficial capacity, but was later placed into their foster care.<\/p>\n
Last December the parents discussed adopting Roman with their other children, who said they already regarded him as their sibling.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Renee and Brad\u00a0Balassaitis raced to adopt Roman before his birthday. They are relieved the young man – who has lived in 19 different places since the age of 11 – now has a base will no longer have to worry about being moved around. Pictured from left to right: Austin, Brad, Roman, Renee, Tatianna and Halle\u00a0<\/p>\n
Later, on Christmas day, Roman was given the most priceless gift, with Brad and Renee revealing they were adopting him.<\/p>\n
The mother of nine told Today: ‘We were all sobbing, All Roman has ever wanted was to find his forever family.’<\/p>\n
Roman has been extremely relieved ever since the day of his adoption, according to his mother, who says his change in demeanor is obvious.<\/p>\n
The foster parents wanted to give the young man the stability he never had growing up, so that he has a home base and always has somewhere to stay during the festive season.<\/p>\n
Brad and Renee have adopted seven children, Tom, 28, Chrissy, 26, Austin, 22, Sammy, 20, and Tatiana, 17.<\/p>\n
They pair who have fostered 20 children since 2008, also have three biological children Jared, 22, Halle, 18, and 18-year-old Rose who passed away in 2022.<\/p>\n