{"id":239203,"date":"2023-10-23T13:35:51","date_gmt":"2023-10-23T13:35:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lovemainstream.com\/?p=239203"},"modified":"2023-10-23T13:35:51","modified_gmt":"2023-10-23T13:35:51","slug":"im-an-affair-recovery-expert-cheaters-all-say-the-same-thing-to-me-after-having-a-fling-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovemainstream.com\/beauty-and-fashion\/im-an-affair-recovery-expert-cheaters-all-say-the-same-thing-to-me-after-having-a-fling-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m an affair recovery expert – cheaters all say the same thing to me after having a fling | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
WHEN it comes to rebuilding a relationship after an affair, it\u2019s inevitably going to take a great deal of time and patience.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n And no one knows that better than Rece, an affair recovery expert who regularly shares advice with her 117k followers on her TikTok account @Rece_Affair_Recovery.\u00a0<\/p>\n And in a recent clip, the marriage coach revealed the one thing that cheaters always say to her after having a fling \u2013 and why it just proves the grass is always greener.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cSo as an affair recovery page, I get a lot of messages from people who left their partners,\u201d Rece begins, \u201cand started a relationship with their affair partners.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cAnd multiple of them tell me that they regretted it,\u201d the counsellor continues.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cNow I know that I go off a lot of my own experiences and research that I\u2019ve done,\u201d the relationships whizz adds, \u201cbut I also use your guys' messages to me, obviously when I get them approved.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou need to understand that multiple people have told me that not only did they leave their first original marriage, they started a relationship with their affair partner, only to realise that the things that I am saying are 100% true.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n She then points out that without the advice of a relationship expert such as herself, cheaters \u201cjust thought that they had met the love of their life, their soulmate, so they go and chase after it\u201d.<\/p>\n \u201cReally, it was just feeling and emotions and limerence, and later on down the road, they realise that this person is not better than their original husband or wife.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n So Rece\u2019s advice would be to always try and keep a level head, and not get caught up in the romance of how you imagine someone you barely even know.\u00a0<\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n \u201cThere are major problems with everybody,\u201d Rece says, \u201cand feelings fade.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cHeed my warning,\u201d she concluded.\u00a0<\/p>\n Her video racked up more than 1.8k likes and hundreds of comments agreeing with her analysis.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cYes, I\u2019m one of them\u2026\u201d one follower confessed. \u201cYou\u2019re so right.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cLimerence doesn\u2019t last,\u201d a second agreed.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cAffairs are fantasy and escape, as soon as the facade drops and reality hits, the excitement is over,\u201d a third added.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n Fabulous will pay for your exclusive stories. Just email: fabulousdigital@the-sun.co.uk and pop EXCLUSIVE in the subject line<\/strong><\/p>\n
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