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\u2018I\u2019m not celibate by choice \u2013 I [just] can\u2019t find the right guy,\u2019 said Swedish model Amber \u2018Sweetheart\u2019 Johanssen.<\/p>\n
In fact, the 37-year-old model hasn\u2019t been on a date or had sex in two years and believes that men are \u2018too scared\u2019 to approach her.<\/p>\n
Amber has nearly 500,000 Instagram followers (@amberjsweetheart) and earns nearly \u00a350,000 a month from her content creation.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s getting plenty of attention from her fans online, but when it comes to her dating life, she thinks her influencer job is putting potential suitors off.<\/p>\n
\u2018I haven\u2019t been on a date or had sex in two years. My sex drive is still going strong\u2026 I masturbate daily,\u2019 Amber said.<\/p>\n
\u2018My job hinders my love life and sex life, with most guys scared to approach me.<\/p>\n
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\u2018Last time I tried to organise a date, the guy cancelled on me last minute. I honestly think he was intimidated by my success and beauty.\u2019<\/p>\n
The model even recalled some pretty harsh words from men she\u2019s considered dating.<\/p>\n
\u2018Men have told me that they don\u2019t take me seriously and that they would be embarrassed by being with me,\u2019 she said.<\/p>\n
\u2018I\u2019ve tried dating apps, but guys seem to think it\u2019s a fake catfish account or they find my sexy content online before the date, and it makes it very awkward.<\/p>\n
\u2018I feel like they are more interested in bedding me than actually getting to know who I am.\u2019<\/p>\n
Despite her bad luck, Amber hopes to find love soon and is putting herself out there frequently.<\/p>\n
Amber has decided she\u2019s looking for a British partner, because she believes that Swedish men aren\u2019t \u2018chivalrous\u2019 enough and are tight with their money.<\/p>\n
We\u2019d say that\u2019s a bit of a generalisation, but the model seems to know what she wants.<\/p>\n
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She said: \u2018I am looking for someone with intelligence, kindness, good manners, and someone who isn\u2019t cheap. My biggest issue with Swedish men is the lack of chivalry.<\/p>\n
\u2018Unfortunately, in my home country, guys want to share the bill 50\/50 and I hate that, especially on the first date.<\/p>\n
\u2018I don\u2019t mind paying for myself or a date, but it\u2019s the principle. I love British men! I love their accent and cheeky ways.\u2019<\/p>\n
Amber said her dating and sex life was far better before she was a model, and she\u2019s taken to Instagram to share her dating woes with her followers.<\/p>\n
The response was overwhelmingly positive, with no shortage of men willing to banish her dating troubles for good.<\/p>\n
\u2018Yes I would love to wine and dine you,\u2019 said one fan, while another wrote: \u2018No questions asked mamacita!\u2019<\/p>\n
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A third person said: \u2018You don\u2019t have to ask me twice. Hell yes,\u2019 and someone else added: \u2018Don\u2019t need to ask Amber.\u2019<\/p>\n
But the model hasn\u2019t accepted the offers, saying it is \u2018difficult\u2019 to date someone she meets online as these people often have \u2018preconceived ideas\u2019 about her.<\/p>\n
\u2018At the moment, I have resigned myself to the fact that it might be difficult to find a man because of my job,\u2019 Amber added.<\/p>\n
\u2018But I would love to find a \u2018normal\u2019 man who accepts me for who I am. I won\u2019t stop looking for Mr Right.\u2019<\/p>\n